TEC SAIDPosted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 5:30 pm Post subject:
Good questions, Glad.
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Doubt a person’s faith and you are questioning their judgement, intelligence and sanity.
I thought the above was poignant as well. As well as, the questioning (depending upon how it is done) sometimes dismisses just how much one has questioned their own faith, reasoned through it, searched for answers, etc. Most everyone who has ever changed, left, or returned to the one to whom they give their faith... has questioned themselves and their own judgment.
My faith is in Christ and all that He teaches about His Father, about life, about love, about how we should live and treat one another, and about the spirit/spiritual. I also have faith in Him that He will lead me gently along, perhaps unless i ask Him to do otherwise, but then, that would not be trusting Him so completely. He has always led me right, never lied, and he has always answered the faith I have in Him... and then some. Way more than i could even think possible.
On another note, I have found that i do not have the same faith in others of authority,that i once had. Like dentists - sometimes i think there 'you must get this done' is a money grab, because too many times what they said could not heal on its own, has healed on its own. Doctors are way smarter than me in their field, so i do trust them, but not without realizing that they are human and make mistakes when something outside their expertise is presented to them. They do know more than me, but now i will question more, and not just accept. Teachers... perhaps the biggest one for me. I used to think that the teachers must know more about what my son needed than me, and because I gave them that faith, I let my son down, over and over again. Teachers are far too overworked, with far too many students, to be able to truly see one child who needs something different, much less give them that. That goes for principals as well.
Since I have stopped giving such blind belief to others, and since I have more looked to my Lord for guidance, and His teachings, and trusted what i know within me about my children, that speaks from love and not from rules and conformity... I have been able to do so much better for my family and for myself. Lots of hurt to undo, and some damage from that, but at least i can look to that now.
Peace to you,
tammy