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I think you may possibly have misunderstood what I meant, Shelby.
Perhaps, dear Char (peace to you!). Wouldn't be the first nor I think the last time, I'm sure - LOLOLOL!
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I didn't mean that we should blindly and indiscriminately accept and take on board anyone's viewpoint, let alone those that are clearly bad. I meant that a mind open to the viewpoints of others is good, as in being prepared to listen and give them due onside ration, perhaps, if such is appropriate.
I'm sorry; I must have missed that "if such is appropriate" part. I did not get that it was implied, so my apologies for missing that it was.
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That doesn't mean that one's mind should be unable to exercise discernment. It's very important to use that gift, isn't it? for discernment, good judgement, is truly a gift from God.
I am not sure everyone would agree that is a gift from God. Some have absolutely no relationship with God and yet still have this ability, while others do claim/have such a relationship but still don't possess it. I am one of the latter, sad to say. Which is why I know I need God - LOLOLOL!
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It wouldn't take as much as a second, I should think, to discern pure evil, would it?
I mean NO offense but SURELY you know that pure evil is NOT readily discerned... as if it were it would be manifest... and overcome out... MUCH quicker and it often it. A heinous killer would be caught BEFORE killing, if not after the first kill. Yes? Yet, how many become serial killers? I guess, though, if one has never seen/experienced "pure evil" one might have difficulty accepting the reality that it even exists.
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Openness and allowing another person's view to be heard is, in ordinary instances, not of course extremes, surely desirable?
I think depends on the definition of "ordinary instances," dear Char, which is not necessarily the same for all. I mean, I have an opinion as to the Zimmerman-Martin case. You think everyone should hear that?
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Nor does such openness suggest in any way that one would change one's own views, if they are strongly-held beliefs,
But your comment kinda does suggest that, absent all of this subsequent clarification. I mean, that is the POINT, is it not, for listening in the first place? Else, folks are just... talking. Yes?
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though organisations such as the Watchtower rely on the persuasiveness of their literature and the Witnesses to make use of other people's willingness to listen.
They're not alone, though, dear one. Not by a stretch. The WTBTS didn't INVENT this tendency; they only saw it, and use it. Capitalize on it, for purposes of gaining members and money. But they're not alone. EVERY aspect of human life does this. From advertising to proselytizing, from politics to grassroots social reformers. Yes?
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And there's the disadvantage of my own argument! For it was exactly that scenario, of willingness to allow the other to state their point of view, that got me ensnared by the Watchtower. If it hadn't been for the crass behaviour of two elders I might have become though lay and completely ensnared. I certainly came within a hair's breadth of that happening!
YES!! So I am glad that you can now see how that aspiration CAN be a two-edged sword! GOOD show, girl!
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So, all in all, yes, respect for the other is a good thing in principle but one needs to be wary of those intent on abusing that very good inclination in others.
One does not always KNOW another's intent, does one, so as to KNOW when to BE wary... and of WHOM, yes? Hence, my profession of Christ's viewpoint being tantamount with ME. I KNOW I cannot lean on my OWN understanding, especially given that it once led me TO listen to the WTBTS. For ME, that dictates that rather than thinking I DO know "something"... anything... WHAT I know is that MY judgment isn't trustworthy. His, though, ALWAYS is. So, what do I do? Trust in myself and lean upon my OWN understanding... which has PROVEN faulty... or trust in HIM... and lean on HIS... which is NEVER faulty?
I'm not a gambling woman, dear Char... but I know a PERFECTLY "sound" investment when I see one. And I've only ever seen one: Christ.
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And respect and openness does not include at all, in any way, the adoption of the other's views.
Well, I am glad you can see that. Perhaps you can see the other side, too, though: that respect and openness CAN (and often does) include the REJECTION of others' views, too. Even outright. And that's something I must thank the WTBTS for, helping me see that not all WILL agree with/accept your beliefs... but... so what, don't take it so personal. Christ, though, taught me how to BETTER take on such rejection... by not taking it personal at ALL.
Again, peace to you!
A slave of Christ,
Shellama