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flattery can be a GREAT snare, keeping us in something that we know we should leave
That recalls to my mind something Paul wrote to Timothy, dear tec (mornin' and peace to you!), which does NOT apply to dear Loz (peace, luv!) or her situation at ALL... but served as a reminder to ME once, when I allowed myself to stay in a position too long due to the pay:
"For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and [i]pierced themselves with many griefs[/i]."I was really suffering at the job; my ideas were being stolen and passed off as my bosses, who would tell me the ideas were unrealistic, then present them... in my same format and everything... as his! I didn't know how to speak up and say, "Hey, wait a minute! You got from ME, and told ME it wouldn't work!" I enjoyed the lifestyle the job permitted me because of the pay, but I KEPT hearing Paul's words to Timothy over and over again. I KNEW what our Lord was telling me... and that he was RIGHT... but I couldn't "see" how I would manage on lower pay (which I THOUGHT is what I would have to settle for).
I didn't want him to have to warn me too many times... or stop warning me at all... and so I finally turned in my notice... without having found another job! Uh-ohhhhh... what to do NOW? But I wanted to obey... as well as NOT keep piercing MYSELF with "many griefs." So, I just exercised FAITH... and gave my notice.
The result? A job with a higher position and so MORE pay, and one where when I left (the company dissolved) I got pretty good severance and THEN UI when that ran out! So, I was able to help my husband start a side business. Then the job after THAT was even MORE pay, almost double, actually (I eventually left that one, though, because, like dear Loz now, it was 2.5 hours away and so I had to live out of town during the week. After a little over a year of that, I missed my own house - LOL!). Even so, both jobs were better than that one I left. I just had to exercise faith... and courage... and do what our dear Lord was trying to exhort me to do. I did not leave for more money; I just wanted to obey what he was telling me. The result for DOING that, obeying HIM... was more money! LOL!
Faith can also require a little bit (or a lot) of courage.
Again, peace to you!
YSSFS of Christ,
Shellamar