Char, I hope you are going to be feeling better soon and they figure out what might be wrong... and also glad you have your son to take care of you if you need him.
Happy Birthday to Mr. Loz!!!
I am so happy for you with him, Loz. He sounds so wonderful, he loves you, and he is obviously a well loved man.
Zoe, I had to grin a little bit when you said that you were happily typing away while your hubby couldn't figure his new computer out. Its kinda funny, but I can almost see the snarl that was probably coming your way. I agree with loz, best to just avoid. One of the last fights my husband and I had (well, it ended up not being a fight at all), he was annoyed about something and just getting started with the complaining. I just got up from what I was doing near him, and calmly went downstairs to fold laundry. I just left him complaining without me, lol. He came downstairs a few minutes later, looking at me kinda quizzically.
He asks, "Did you come down here just to get away from me?"
"Yeah," I answered, nonchalant and still really calm.
"Hmm," he murmured, then nodded a bit, and that was the end of it.
He just seemed so confused, lol. All I was thinking was that if you want to complain or stress out, then you go right ahead, but I'm not going to be brought down because of it.
I actually also came on this thread just to announce that I love my job. I am really enjoying it. I haven't had a bad night yet, obviously, lol. But another girl from my old work has also come to work here, so now I get to know another server, and not feel so surrounded by strange faces : )

Peace all,
tammy