Peace to you, dear LQ... and to your dear wife - may she be granted the peace of our dear Lord to help strengthen her through her pending surgery and all that comes with that.
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"... I was going to openly partake this year."
".. the morning stars sang together
and all the angels shouted for joy...Quote:
I decided to write a letter so I could get all my thoughts down without being interrupted and without the conversation devolving into an argument.
SMART move! VERY smart!
I'm sorry, but I also have to say, though, that JW women tend to be some of greatest "drama-queens" I've ever known. Between the postulations, the crying, the woe is me's... I used to be SO taken aback - I never knew women who acted that way (although, I'm absolutely certain and have since learned, that drama is not limited to JW women. But where I came from, well, let's just say drama either got you talked about (poorly)... or beat up.)
The literal gnashing of the teeth, though - isn't that something? You see it and you go, "OMG, he SAID that would happen but I didn't think he meant LITERALLY!" But, yep, literally. I am very sorry that it's your dear wife, dear brother, and hope that it's as you say: just additional stress due to her pending surgery.
Although, as we can see, for some (okay, most) JWs, partaking is NOT a good thing - to the contrary, rather than being a reason for JOY... which is what it SHOULD be... for them, it's WORSE than adultery, fornication, homosexuality, child abuse/molestation, spousal abuse... heck, murder. SO sad that they don't "see" it that way. As we've often discussed, most exJWs will come out and do all manner of "worldly" things to exert their (so-called) "freedom" from the WTBTS. But... PARTAKE???!!!!! Ohhhhh-nooooooo... NEVER that! LOLOLOL!
As for your dear son, may JAH will it that he the young man isn't so inculcated with FEAR... that he at least ASKS you what's up. Sure, maybe what you tell him will be hard to take. But if he won't even ask so as to find out... well, let's hope that isn't the case. I am sure that between his mom and the WTBTS "wolves," fear has TRIED to overtake him. You, though, and YOUR actions and information MIGHT be the key to fear losing out over him. May it be so.
And may JAH bless you, dear brother. May His undeserved kindness and mercy, and the love and peace of His Son and Christ, our dear Lord, the HOLY One of Israel and Holy Spirit, JAHESHUA, JAH's Chosen One (MischaJAH), be upon you... to time indefinite. May it such strengthen you and may it be granted you to CONTINUE hearing the Spirit and his bride and their invitation to YOU to come and take Life's (Christ's) water... as you are wishing to do.
PEACE to you, dear, dear brother!
YSSFS of Christ,
Shel